So, I was tagged in a note on Facebook in which a close friend outlined her friends’ theme songs. Apparently, mine is “Break Your Heart” by Taio Cruz.
I’ve heard the song a few times on the radio but never really paid attention, so I proceeded to listen in. Yeeeeaaaa, I’m a bit offended. That is completely ludicrous.
When asked about my new label, my friend promised me she meant no offense by it. So maybe I am being a bit sensitive. However, I don’t see that my having dated a lot should earn me the title of “heartbreaker”. That’s just kind of silly. Granted, I had my “run through them” mentality for a while when I was younger, but I didn’t know what I wanted in a relationship. Once I passed my mid-twenties though, I realized what I want in a man, and I don’t see the point in wasting my time (or someone else’s) by dating people with whom I can’t see a future. OK, I’ll give you that I’ll date solely for fun sometimes, and I’ll even give you that I do have a tendency to be the person who ends it, but certainly not all the time. I’ve been hurt too, dangit! In any case, why should I feel bad for knowing what I want and not compromising on that? Every time I have compromised it has ended badly, and by badly I mean that I hurt someone. I don’t want to do that to someone, so why even let it get that far?
Yes, I’m offended and a tad saddened that I’m seen as a “heartbreaker” by my friend (and yes, I’m aware of how absolutely ridiculous that sounds). In any case, the song is catchy.
